The person behind DecideHer
About Amanda
The woman behind DecideHer™.
I’m a GenX founder, author and serial re-inventor. I’ve moved house more than 65 times, lived in 4 countries, been married twice, a breast cancer survivor and a career mum, so I know a thing or two about big decisions. Then menopause arrived, and suddenly the easy ones felt hard.
My libido left without saying goodbye. My patience went with it. Some days I didn’t recognise the woman in the mirror, and the questions kept coming at 3am. Should I stay? Should I go? Who am I now?
My friends were asking the same questions, loudly, over wine. Nobody had a structured (non-biased) way to answer them. So I built one.
DecideHer™ is the tool I wish I’d had: private, honest, a little bit funny, and on your side.
Space for your own clarity
DecideHer is for menopausal, Gen X and mid-life women navigating major life transitions. It offers a calm space to pause, look honestly at what you’re feeling, and consider what comes next.
The aim isn’t to tell you how to live your life. It’s to help you hear yourself more clearly, without judgement or pressure to reach a particular answer.
Your decision remains yours
The journey gives you reflection prompts and possible next steps, not a verdict. It isn’t therapy, medical advice or a substitute for support from someone qualified to help. I built it for women like me, like you and like all those that will follow in our footsteps. I hope you find the answers you are looking for, but if nothing else, I hope you found non-judgemental time to reflect of what comes next at this time in your life. Go girl! You got this. x
Amanda x
Ready for a little clarity?
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