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Questions & Answers
The little things you might be wondering before you begin, answered honestly.
Will my partner or anyone else be able to see my answers?
No. Your answers are worked out right there on your own phone, tablet or computer. They are never sent to us or saved on a server, and there's no account with your name on it.
The only thing anyone could see is what's on your device itself, so if you share a phone, use a private browsing window and close it when you're done. The only things ever sent to us are your "Did this feel true?" rating, anonymously, and your email if you choose to join the waitlist.
What happens if my phone rings or I close the browser halfway through?
Go and answer it. Your answers are tucked away quietly on your device as you go, so when you come back you can pick up right where you left off. If you'd rather leave no trace, tap "Start over" on your result and they're cleared.
Can I retake it later or try another path?
As often as you like. Feelings shift, and that's the point. You can change your answers, start over, or try a different path. Each path keeps its own answers, so exploring one won't muddle another.
How is this different from talking to a therapist or life coach?
DecideHer isn't therapy, coaching or professional advice. Think of it as a calm, structured mirror: a lighthearted way to hear your own thinking without friends, family or the mother-in-law weighing in.
A therapist or coach can walk alongside you over time, and if something needs real expertise, like your health, safety or money, please talk to a professional. Our Helpful Resources & Support page is a good place to start.
Can I print my 7-day action plan?
Yes. On your result page, tap "Download my clarity kit". You'll get a beautifully styled PDF with your direction, your three actions, your full 7-day plan and your reflection prompts, ready to print or save. It's made on your device, too.
Ready for a little clarity?
Pick a path, answer honestly, and get your clarity score, decision pathway and 7-day plan. Private by design. Nothing is saved unless you choose to.
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