Your space, your choice
Privacy & Discretion
Private by design. Nothing is saved unless you choose to.
Your thoughts stay with you
DecideHer works out your result on the device you’re using. There’s no account to create, and we don’t receive or save your selected answers or your result on a server.
Your answers are saved quietly in your browser on this device, so you can pick up where you left off. Nobody else can see them unless they use this device. Tap “Start over” on your result to clear them.
The only time anything leaves your device is when you choose it: your anonymous “Did this feel true?” rating, your email if you join a waitlist or save your result, and, if you ask for your Letter from Future You, your result and any words you typed are sent once to write it and are not stored. If you use the Contact form, your name, email and message are emailed to Amanda and a copy is kept so she can reply.
If you choose to save your result
Saving is always optional. If you tap “Save my result”, we keep your result summary (the path you took, your direction, how strong the lean was, the fear influence, your key insight and any pillar scores), your email and your first name if you give it.
We never store your individual answers or anything you type. Only you can see your saved results, after signing in with a one-time link sent to your email. To remove everything, tap “Delete all my data” on your results page and your account and every saved result are gone for good.
We never sell or share your data. Ever.
This isn’t medical or professional advice
DecideHer isn’t therapy, a diagnosis or a substitute for advice from a qualified professional. It’s a lighter way to sit with a decision. There’s no committee of friends, relatives and your mother-in-law all adding their opinion to yours. Nobody gets a vote, nobody gets disappointed, and nobody asks you to explain yourself.
Take it as a bit of fun and a chance to hear yourself think. When something needs real expertise, like your health, your money, your safety or your children, that’s a conversation for a GP, a therapist, a lawyer or a support service, not an app.
Private answers don’t mean invisible browsing
Your browser may still show that you visited DecideHer in its history or open tabs. Someone with access to your device could see the page while it’s open, or any screenshots you take.
A private browsing window can reduce what your browser keeps after you close it, but it does not make you invisible to your internet provider, employer or anyone monitoring your device. Close all private tabs when you’re finished.
What happens when you visit
Like other websites, DecideHer needs to load pages, images and fonts over the internet. The services delivering these may receive ordinary connection details, such as your IP address. That is separate from your journey answers, which are not included.
If discretion is part of staying safe
If someone checks or monitors your phone, consider using a device they cannot access. Private browsing alone may not protect you. If you feel unsafe, a local domestic abuse support service can help you think through safer options; in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services.
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